I’m Not PERFECT (Day 3 Of Truth)
The following Post is for accomplishing Creative Challenge called 30 Days of Truth, given by Kellie Elmore. It is a unique exercise in self exploration and learning to be honest with yourself… and that ultimately leads to happiness.
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Sad But True !! I’m NOT really what I wanted to be.
To some extent, I am Multitasking but I’m not Master in everything as even I’m not perfect.
Well, It begins like this, whenever you achieve something in the beginning in any particular field. People really appreciating your triumph and eventually, they start expecting more and more to achieve something BIG and EPIC from yourself. Here’s the FACT: – While admiring on your achievements, people begin to imagine that you’ve become some kinda expert or “Guru” in that field, who could do probably do anything. They Over-rate you sometimes for what you’re doing, just to Brag about their friends’ achievements in front of others. Kinda Weird Thing I suppose !! But that’s TRUE sometimes. 😛
It usually happens with me. Whenever I achieve something in my particular field of interest, whether it was poetry/rapping, mimicry, artwork or computer programming. I’ve got a lot of unexpected compliments from many, in School, in College, in Facebook, and even in my Blog and to whom I really admire for their kind support. But on the contrary, I also have to confront some people sometimes, who would come to you for a while and say something GOOD on your achievement in the meantime. They even would give you a Title as “The Pro”, “The Champ” and “The Stud” in that field. Well at the beginning, it feels GOOD for a time. But later it becomes so annoying that I really get pissed-off when people still calling me so, just for their FUN. And even if you didn’t come to their so-called lame expectations, they demoralize you for that. Now that really Bamboozles me a lot !!
I had certain instances in my Life. But I would tell you about that some another day.
Coming straight back to the point. Neither I want such people who just appreciating me just for namesake, nor such people who even over-rate me and my talent. Expecting a genuine and worthily helpful compliment is something else. It is usually given by those people who really understand you and your level, and admires you for what you’re doing from the starting. They are unlike so-called braggers and over-raters, who just praise you for a while and won’t give a DAMN about what you’re doing later.
However, in a form of feedback, even I don’t give a DAMN what these douchebags have to say about me and my talent. I usually like to focus on my work in a silent environment without any interference or distractions from anybody, and showcase either in my Facebook Profile or mostly in my Blog. Ya, I admit that I publicize my work for promotion, in front of those who genuinely admire it. I honestly don’t expect so much from anybody. But there are some people around me who would really see my work and genuinely appreciate or criticize on it for my sake. For the rest, seriously I don’t give a F*ck about it. 😛
For other guys, I don’t know and even don’t wanna discuss about their talent and skills. But like y’all, I’m not Perfect in any case. I’m just walking on the Road to Perfection and I like this way. I know my potential and sense of satisfaction. I know where I really stand now in my fields of interest. Hopefully, I would seize The Biggest Achievement of my Life in future.
Moreover, won’t that be a FUN, if you struggle for Perfection rather calling yourself or being Perfect every time. Seriously, Being PERFECT is so boring. It DAMN better to make your aims and achievements so higher that you would like to battle for earning it.
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The above Post was for accomplishing Creative Challenge called 30 Days of Truth, given by Kellie Elmore. It is a unique exercise in self exploration and learning to be honest with yourself…
Ravel (Day 17 of Haiku)
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Life
Mysterious Life
in the midst of Truth and Lies,
Destiny ravels.
Rights and Wrongs in Life
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This Haiku Post is a part of “ The Haiku Challenge “ – A 28 day Haiku Writing Competition,
organized by ‘Someone Is Special’.
Eyes (Day 6 of Haiku)
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Mysterious Eyes,
tells the Truth from Thousand Lies
The Strength of Vision.
Mysterious Eyes
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This Haiku Post is a part of “ The Haiku Challenge “ – A 28 day Haiku Writing Competition,
organized by ‘Someone Is Special’.
HONESTY is the BEST POLICY (Day 2 of Truth)
The following Post is for accomplishing Creative Challenge called 30 Days of Truth, given by Kellie Elmore. It is a unique exercise in self exploration and learning to be honest with yourself…
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I won’t consider to brag this thing as my Specialty. It’s simply, Just the Way I am.
I really admire and believe in Honesty, Truth and Loyalty. And therefore, I like to be Honest,Truthful and Loyal to be with everybody. I neither like to be Fake nor tried to be Fake. Even I hate such phonies who are very Pretentious and Fake. For me, they are ‘Big Time Losers’ who really don’t have any Identity of themselves. Get a Life, n00bs !! 😛
Well, so talking about my Honesty, this reminds me some instances of my Childhood Memories when we used to play Cricket in Streets. Whether I was batting, bowling, fielding or even just spectating the game, all the guys would treat me as an Umpire. Whenever there is a doubt in an “OUT” of the batsman, they all would appeal for it to me because they used to have a trust and belief that I would definitely give right and honest decision to them. Sometimes, Even I had also made mistakes by giving them some Wrong Decisions. But still, they would admit it happily without any argument.
This Honesty and Loyalty Acid Test is still being taken on me, even now being a Senior in my College. I honestly give suggestions to my Juniors when they ask my recommendations for Books and Study Materials. I don’t tried my best not to misguide and confuse them from my views. What I’ve experienced so far, I just honestly tell them. I neither give Studious advices like “Study all time 24X7” nor Rebellious advices like “Study only at last minute”. I simply just say to them,” It really doesn’t matter how much does it takes. The thing is, Study your Syllabus by taking some Interest on them and Learn it by Heart. Also, enjoy the College Life alongwith as well.” 😉 8)
Moreover, I’ve many favorites of mine in every category of Sports Like – Cricket, Football, X-Games, WWE etc. and also in Entertainment Like- Movies, Music, Televisions Reality Shows etc. But I don’t support Favoritism and Biasing while giving any opinions and reviews on them. I try to give my unbiased views right from the neutral as possible, so that people won’t be having any doubt on later that I am giving my views on the basis of my own likings. Even my friend just appreciated for my reviews about Movies very recently by giving me “Best Critics Awards”, just for FUN. 😛
But looking forward to The Real World, being Honest sometimes is like whipping your own ass. I’m not saying to be Fake every time with everybody. I would still say to be Honest, but with some Smartness. We all should know ‘Where to say’, ‘When to Say’, ‘How to Say’ and therefore, ‘What to Say’ to someone, because We can’t be Honest with everybody around here. Moreover in these days, Some people won’t be believing in you and your Honestly. The Fact is :- They really NEVER Trust you even if you are Honest and True all with them. This brings to another story, which I would reveal here later some another day. Anyways, Let’s finally come to an conclusion :-
Be just the way you are. Don’t Fake. Stay Honest and Loyal.
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The above Post was for accomplishing Creative Challenge called 30 Days of Truth, given by Kellie Elmore. It is a unique exercise in self exploration and learning to be honest with yourself…
My Despicable Habit (Day 1 of Truth)
The following Post is for accomplishing Creative Challenge called 30 Days of Truth, given by Kellie Elmore. It is a unique exercise in self exploration and learning to be honest with yourself…
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Like y’all, even I am also a normal guy, which means that I am also having some Bad Habits in my life, making me to say it so. So, I’m just telling about one of them, which I have to face sometimes but still, very FATAL (though in seldom case). That thing I really really really really HATE in myself.
Well, the Problem is – I’m kinda Absent minded and Confused sometimes.
It really happens with me sometimes that I forget things momentarily and later on, I would start thinking what I’ve forgotten, even for hours. Thinking for something is good, but for a huge time is very bad. It evens becomes a Fatal Problem when I’ve to taken actions abruptly. I admit that I don’t listen carefully, which eventually makes my memory loss. Moreover, while involving in any particular task, I get lost to some another task or thought, which also make me to forget about what I am doing right now. I am really absent-minded and irresponsible sometimes, and I just hate it when I realize those unavoidable mistakes which I’ve committed due to forgetting something really important.
Making my memory power strong, I should write and store as Memo in my Notebook or Mobile, which I usually do. It worked for me in many situations. But that’s not applicable everywhere, especially in those cases where you are asked to respond and complete immediate tasks right now, where you don’t have any time to store somewhere. That’s where I get confused sometimes as my memory attenuates out of nowhere during that moment and start forget things.
However, Just like Hannibal Smith, I’ve got a plan to reduce this problem somehow to an extent. If anybody gives me any particular task to complete, instead of taking abrupt actions and forgetting suddenly, I rather ask them to explain the task once, in order make it confirm again. But asking atmost thrice is quite sufficient. 😛 And this way I am dealing with it so far these days.
Some people might think it’s kinda foolish and DAMN pathetic to ask same thing 2-3 times repeatedly in a row. But still, It’s fine for me because I don’t found it would bring any problem for me to asking 2-3 times and even anybody else to answer the same that many times in a row.
Atleast from now onwards, I won’t be making any mistakes without forgetting.
P.S. :- I know it’s probably kinda STUPID to tell about yourself and even more STUPID to tell so in Website, especially in your own Blog. But No Problem !! That’s the Truth which I should admit.
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The above Post was for accomplishing Creative Challenge called 30 Days of Truth, given by Kellie Elmore. It is a unique exercise in self exploration and learning to be honest with yourself…
Ash Bee Zone 